Bringing home a second cat seems like a great idea—double the fluffy cuddles, double the purring, and double the cuteness. But let’s be real: cats are not pack animals like dogs. They value their space, have strong opinions (often involving knocking things off tables), and don’t always welcome change.
When I adopted my second cat, Milo, I thought he and Luna (my first cat) would be best friends immediately. Turns out, Luna had other plans, which included hissing, sulking, and giving me the silent treatment for a week. It took time, but now they coexist peacefully—most of the time.
So, should you get a second cat? Let’s explore the pros, cons, and key factors before making this big decision.
1. Is Your Current Cat Ready for a New Roommate?
Before bringing home a new cat, take a close look at your current cat’s behavior. Some cats love having a feline friend, while others prefer being the sole ruler of their kingdom.
Signs Your Cat Might Enjoy a Companion:
✔ Playful and Social – Does your cat enjoy playing with other cats at the shelter or a friend’s house? A second cat could be a great match.
✔ Curious and Friendly – If your cat greets strangers and investigates new things fearlessly, they might welcome a new friend.
✔ Bored or Lonely – If your cat seems restless, cries when you leave, or overgrooms, they may benefit from a companion.
Signs Your Cat Might Prefer Being Alone:
❌ Territorial or Aggressive – If your cat hisses at other animals or guards their space, they may struggle with a second cat.
❌ Prefers Solitude – Some cats genuinely enjoy their own company and may resent an intruder in their space.
❌ Easily Stressed – If your cat gets anxious from small changes (like new furniture or guests), introducing another cat could be overwhelming.
🚨 Reality Check:
Luna was always affectionate with me but cautious with other animals. When Milo arrived, she spent a full week hiding under the couch. It took months of careful introductions before she accepted him.
2. Do You Have the Time and Patience?
Unlike dogs, cats won’t immediately “figure things out.” Introducing a second cat requires patience, and the transition period can take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months.
The Introduction Process:
🐾 Start with Scent Swapping – Exchange blankets or toys between the cats before they meet.
🐾 Separate First, Then Gradually Introduce – Keep them in separate rooms at first, allowing them to sniff each other under the door.
🐾 Supervised Meetings – Let them see each other through a baby gate or cracked door before allowing direct contact.
🐾 Be Patient – Expect hissing, growling, and swatting in the first few encounters. This is normal!
🚨 Reality Check:
I was way too excited when I brought Milo home and let him roam freely too soon. Luna wasn’t having it and spent the next few days guarding her food bowl like a dragon protecting treasure. I had to restart the process slowly.
3. Financial Considerations: Can You Afford Two Cats?
Adding another cat means double the expenses. Cats might be lower maintenance than dogs, but they still require:
💰 Food & Treats – Quality cat food adds up fast, especially if your cats require special diets.
💰 Litter & Supplies – More cats = more litter box duty (and yes, you’ll need an extra litter box).
💰 Veterinary Care – Routine checkups, vaccinations, and unexpected medical expenses can be costly.
💰 Toys & Enrichment – Two cats will need scratching posts, toys, and climbing areas to prevent boredom.
🚨 Reality Check:
I underestimated how much litter two cats go through. I went from cleaning once a day to twice a day, and my apartment smelled like a cat café gone wrong. Budget for extra litter boxes and cleaning supplies.
4. Choosing the Right Second Cat
Not all cats will be compatible, so choosing the right match is crucial.
What to Consider:
✅ Age Match – A young, energetic kitten might annoy a senior cat, while two playful cats will likely bond more easily.
✅ Personality Match – Pairing a shy cat with an overly dominant one might cause stress. Try to match energy levels.
✅ Opposite-Sex Pairs Work Well – Many cat owners find that male-female pairings lead to fewer conflicts than two dominant males or females.
🚨 Reality Check:
I adopted Milo (a hyperactive kitten) while Luna was still young enough to handle his energy. If she had been older, she might have hated his constant antics.
5. The Benefits of Having Two Cats
When introduced correctly, having two cats can be amazing for both you and your pets.
🐾 Companionship – Cats may not be as social as dogs, but many enjoy a feline friend to groom, cuddle, and play with.
🐾 More Play, Less Destruction – Two cats can entertain each other instead of attacking your furniture out of boredom.
🐾 Emotional Support – Cats form bonds and comfort each other during stressful times (storms, fireworks, vet visits).
🚨 Reality Check:
Once Luna accepted Milo, I started finding them curled up together in the sun. Now, they chase each other around the house and even groom each other. Heart = melted.
6. Potential Challenges & How to Handle Them
Even if your cats eventually become friends, expect some growing pains along the way.
🐾 Jealousy & Attention-Seeking – Give each cat equal playtime and affection to prevent rivalry.
🐾 Litter Box Wars – Always have one more litter box than the number of cats (for two cats, have three litter boxes).
🐾 Territorial Disputes – Make sure each cat has their own bed, food bowl, and safe space to retreat to.
🚨 Reality Check:
Luna was not happy when Milo tried using her litter box. I quickly got a second one, and peace was restored.
Final Verdict: Should You Get a Second Cat?
✔ If your cat is social, you have the time, space, and financial resources, then YES! A second cat can be an incredible companion.
✔ If your cat prefers solitude, is highly territorial, or you’re unsure about the commitment, you may want to rethink it.
For me, bringing home Milo for Luna was one of the best decisions ever. The initial adjustment was challenging, but now my home is filled with double the purring, double the play, and double the love.🐾 Thinking about getting a second cat? Drop your questions or experiences in the comments!